no but really, when i'm not happy i don't want anybody touching me at all ever i just wanna be left alone. i know i can't just walk up and ask a person 'hey why don't you like it when i link my arm with yours when we walk or if i give you a hug in greeting?' so i just kind of assume you're not used to it because you never had someone give that too you freely and hence! you might not be totally happy.
you do realize we're two completely different people, right? some people just don't like hugs and all that shit, and you've just got to deal with it cause that's not going to change
i know we're different but *you* know that's not my point. i'm only telling you why i think the things i think and feel the things i feel.
so you're telling me that i should just deal with the fact that someone i care about has no desire to experience anything remotely like affection, even from me, even though you know that's how *i* am as a person, and there's nothing i can do to change that?
how is sex okay but hugging's not? it's my understanding you need to get pretty close to someone physically to have sex with them. where's that line? just so we really are clear.
[ nOW SHE'S CURIOUS you brought this on yourself ]
oh. oh! no, i mean. i knew that. i don't- i usually just end up sparring instead. like you said before.
would it be a lost cause if i try to explain maybe hugging someone when you're just a little stressed is basically the same as ..fucking somebody when you're really stressed?
"it's my understanding you need to get pretty close to someone physically to have sex with them." doesn't sound like the voice of experience. besides, with xavier on your back all the time, i doubt you get the chance
i was being sarcastic! poking fun at the fact that you don't like physical affection but you enjoy sex. and Charles actually has no room to be on my back about that, so i'm pretty free to make any and all kinds of decisions in that department.
sounds to me like you haven't been fighting the right people
hey, that's fine. i don't think i really wanna fight with you, judging by the way you talk about it. sounds to me like it's probably lacking in all the fun ways. and what's the point of that?
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so not liking hugs means i'm not happy?
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i put a lot of thought into this don't be mad
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i didn't. so you've either got to deal with it or we'll just keep having this same conversation until we leave
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so you're telling me that i should just deal with the fact that someone i care about has no desire to experience anything remotely like affection, even from me, even though you know that's how *i* am as a person, and there's nothing i can do to change that?
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you have no idea how much you already do that i'd kick the shit out of someone else for even attempting
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( i hear you loud and clear wesley gibson, i won't push )
but i will tease you about it c:
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how is sex okay but hugging's not? it's my understanding you need to get pretty close to someone physically to have sex with them. where's that line? just so we really are clear.
[ nOW SHE'S CURIOUS you brought this on yourself ]
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[granted, he still hasn't had any in a long time. but he knows it's a good way to work out some frustrations]
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i'd show you but that'd be pretty fucking weird
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would it be a lost cause if i try to explain maybe hugging someone when you're just a little stressed is basically the same as ..fucking somebody when you're really stressed?
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[ LOL yes she does ]
like i said, i spar instead. i don't need to be angry to want to sleep with someone.
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fighting only gets you so far
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sounds to me like you haven't been fighting the right people
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